Things Are Not Going Well At All

Things Are Not Going Well At All

My Son

Well my son has been hospitalized for a third time since his dad was jailed because either his meds aren’t working or he isn’t taking them like he’s supposed to. I’m hoping it’s the latter. That means I’ll have to start monitoring him more closely when giving him his meds.

My Husband

My husband is still in jail and they keep moving his court date despite the fact he has a lawyer (mind you a public defender but still a lawyer). His court date is either going to be July 28th or the 31st. I guess I’ll find out when he calls to pick him up or to tell me he’s going to prison. I seriously hope he doesn’t go to prison though because his kids need him.

My daughter

My daughter is doing better since she got back on her medicine. She still misses her dad but she’s not being ugly to me anymore and she’s not being depressed so that’s a good thing. I wish there was medicine to make them not miss their dad but that’s okay because now he knows how much they love him.

Me

I’m doing okay just worried that my son and daughter are going to have lasting effects from this. I feel like they are going to want to go everywhere with their dad and that’s just not going to be possible unless I go too and I will if I have to. I tried to get him out of jail the other day but I owe too much on my house and can’t pay the 15% needed for a bondsman but there’s nothing I can do about that so I’m just dealing the best I can.

Please Continue Praying

Please continue praying for my family because we need all the prayers we can get. Also if you would like to help me out financially contact me and I can help you with BeachBody products because I’m a beachbody Coach now or if you need tools for your business just click the banner to the right and get started with AIOP (All In One Profits). Or if you don’t want to do any of that you can just donate through my paypal which I’ll give you if you contact me.

Thank you
Mary Owens
Mary’s Biz, LLC
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Tragedy Has Struck My Family (Not A Death)

Tragedy Has Struck My Family (Not A Death)

Well just last month on May 10th my husband ended up getting arrested leaving me alone with no way to go. Luckily he has good friends that helped me adjust to being alone with two developmentally delayed children along with my family. Thank goodness he’s better at making friends than I am.

About a week later I got our truck back thank goodness. It was left at someone’s house and wasn’t impounded. Although the reunion with our truck wasn’t all rosy because it had been burglarized. If it wasn’t attached to the truck it was stolen along with my government phone that I was getting free service on. Such a bummer.

Our Truck

On top of that my kids were having a hard time adjusting to his absence with my oldest having to be hospitalized because he was thinking about killing himself, me and his sister. That was scary finding out that was going on in his head. He isn’t doing much better either, He’s schizophrenic, bi-polar and has Tourette’s syndrome. We still haven’t got his meds straightened out either. Please keep him in your prayers or whatever it is you do to help make good things happen.

My son Mark, Jr.

My daughter cried for about a week but seems fine now but still misses her daddy.

My daughter Arianna

As for me I was scared out of my mind for about two weeks and was wanting him home immediately despite the fact that I have been wanting a divorce for quite sometime now. I am doing much better now and we are doing better financially without him. So I will be going forward with the divorce soon.

Me

Well thank you for reading my post and please keep us in your thoughts as we navigate this new adventure.

Mary Owens
Owner Mary’s Biz, LLC

School At Home Update

School At Home Update

I just wanted to give everyone an update on our schooling at home.

So far everything is going great. Arianna is doing better now than when she was in brick and mortar school. Last semester she got perfect attendance and she made honor roll! In brick and mortar she was being bullied so much that she missed at least 1 day a week so she was truant every year and believe me going to court over that is very scary for someone like me and her.

The best part about schooling at home (SAH) is no set time to get up. As long as she watches her class recordings and does her work she’s fine, yes you heard that right! Class recordings! It’s not traditional homeschooling and that’s why we call it schooling at home, she attends school online and has teachers that teach just like in brick and mortar school.

I have re-enrolled her for next year and we don’t plan on ever going back to brick and mortar.

Well that’s it for now and I’ll let you know if anything else comes up.

Bye and have a great day!
Mary Owens

P.S. She attends Georgia Cyber Academy.

 

I Had A Dream

I Had A Dream

Well a couple nights ago I had the most fantastic dream.

We open on a very large living room, so you can imagine how big the rest of the house is, I didn’t get to the rest of it though. So anyway back to the living room, I couldn’t believe how big it was. Needless to say I’ve never lived in a big house being poor and all so this was a shock and I was very excited about it, until I heard all the noise coming from outside.

I opened my huge door and looked outside and there to my surprise was about 10 picnic tables lined up across our fenced in huge front yard and sitting at them were various grown ups and children having therapy sessions.

I know right? Crazy!

Well they also had their pets with them and this concerned me because in the dream I had 3 dogs. 2 Chiweenies and a mutt that had ears that sort of perked up but folded at the tips and he was scruffy and medium sized. Then I noticed the gate had been left open and I started to say something but one of the grownups beat me to it and said “she would probably like for us to shut the gate” so they did. I then let my dogs out and everything was fine to my surprise.

My cousins were there also and said that that was where these people always had their therapy sessions and that if I was going to live there I had to get used to it.

A little while later I got up to let my dogs back in and when I got to the door and they saw me they started whining like I had left them out there for a while, but in my dream it seemed like it had only been a little while. I went and sat down on the couch and they jumped up there with me and were all over me licking my face and whining. It was crazy.

Then the next thing I know I’m talking to a different cousin about how we couldn’t afford the rent there anymore and she said that we could live in her mom’s house rent free because there was no one living there. My other 2 cousins then asked her if they could live there too and she said no that she could only afford the 4 in my family.

Then I woke up.

It was admittedly a crazy dream and I’m surprised I remembered everything, or at least I hope I did anyway.

What crazy dreams have you had? Let me know in the comments!

Have a great day!
Mary Owens